They say the early bird gets the worm, but not if the worm store doesn’t open until 10am.
Don’t put me on your imaginary pedestal. I am more than capable of imagining one for myself.
Take the time to reflect on the hard work you have done today.
Take the time to reflect on the many blessings you have received through your hard work.
Take the time to reflect on the All Mighty who gives you the opportunity to work, the ability to work and the blessings you receive from that work.
In His name, have compassion for those who do not have the opportunity to work, have not been taught to work, or do not have the ability to work. In His name, all things are possible, but without compassion, in other words – charity, nothing good is possible.
Take the time to reflect… and when you are done be grateful.
Even if all men are created equal at birth, it doesn’t mean they necessarily grow up with access to equal resources and opportunities. Is it the role of a government to provide for a better quality of Life and Liberty so that the Pursuit of Happiness can be equally pursued?
If the day is so filled with fog that you can’t see past the nose on your face, at least be sure of where your nose is.
Why should a king be able to tell his subjects what to do, or a parliament, or a president for that matter? “No taxation without representation,” was not a battle cry for independence, but a cry for a voice. Unfortunately, a crazy king sort of thought, “I am king, my voice is all that matters.” Rational voices advising the king were ignored. Hot heads in the colony ignored their moderate comrades, took advantage of the king’s attitude, promoted independence, war broke out and the rest is all history.
Well, except for the fact that nobody knew how they were going to fund the new nation. That issue took a few more years for the wrinkles to be worked out. Luckily there was plenty of land wealth just to the west; land filled with untapped natural resources and rich farmland.
That great expanse of land to the west served a couple purposes for the new nation. The first was it acted as a great national income booster; land speculation and sales have always been good money makers. Secondly, it afforded people a place to migrate when they began to feel penned in by civilization and all the terrible ills of government. History tells of land rushes and land deals, of frontiersmen and pioneers, all taking advantage of the great western territory, ripe for the taking and cheap. True there was hardship and uncertainty, and one can’t forget the peoples that would have to be removed, displaced or killed, but what is a little hardship and genocide if it keeps your citizens happy and your national coffers from running dry? As long as the land didn’t run out, everything would be fine.
Yes, I am being a bit flippant with the issue, but barring a full history lesson which would probably bore you, this quick synopsis does the trick of setting up my point. You see as long as there was open land to the west, unhappy citizens could pack up their gear and move when they decided the government was interfering too much in their private lives. It is what our ancestors have been doing ever since the first European feet were planted on North American soil. True the rebels of the American Revolution told the king to take a hike, but then they turned around and created a government based on the constitutions of British colonies (i.e. Massachusetts and Virginia). Yes, yes, and yes, I hear your arguments streaming in, they did reform, reorganize and design a constitution of the people which could continually evolve as the nation grew. They did an excellent job, but citizens still got miffed and moved west from time to time. “Don’t tell me what to do – you’re not the boss of me,” was an attitude that settled the west. Just look at Texas, Oregon and Utah.
In the end, the government remained the boss. Contrary to what some might want you to believe, our current president is not a Crazy King George and still listens to the people. The same holds true for the majority of our elected officials and for the political candidates seeking office. However, with all the shouting, distrust and propaganda coming from all sides of the political world, it might be hard for any of them to actually hear what the citizens are saying. Too much noise and sensory overload can seriously get in the way. So if you really have something to say then research your point well, write a polite letter, and remember to sign your name. That is what rational, mature citizens do.
Oh, and if you want to know why the US government can tell you what to do, it is the price of citizenship. Don’t believe me, just check out the oath all new citizens take. “…I will support and defend the Constitution and laws of the United States of America…”
Crying, when life is hard, is not a bad thing, as life can look amazing through sparkling tears. Like the rain is needed for the rainbow, tears are often needed for the return of the smile.
We are taught to be grateful for the things in life which are pleasing, beautiful and seem easy, but if we try to have gratitude for the things which cause us discomfort, stress or seem hard, we may just find life to be filled with less anger, discord and frustration. We may even find ourselves growing in ways unforeseen. Learning to be grateful for the unpleasant aspects of life can often reveal unexpected treasures.
While losing power for twelve hours is not on my list of fun ways to spend a family evening at home, it does have some positive attributes. Yesterday a vicious wind blew up from the south. The wind never really stops on the Eastern Plains of Colorado, a reality one learns quickly if they want to prosper here. My daughter, a much heartier soul than I, considers most of our light gales to be nothing more than pleasant breezes.
The wind and weather can come from all directions: blizzards from the north, rain from the east, and hail from the west, but it is the wind from the south that is to be feared. Barns blown over, trees uprooted and shingle roofs shredded, these are commonality not rarity with winds from the south.
Yesterday’s wind began with blustery force. Hair had to be re-combed at church, even super-hold hairspray and gel withered under the assault. The drive home was a challenge for the newbie behind the wheel. No drivers ed course could prepare the novice for the head wind he faced, but luck was with him and the dust cloud arose only after he had safely made it home. One new driving challenge faced, one saved for a future day.
By 5pm the wind was gathering strength, but animals still needed care. The stalwart, hearty daughter braved the crossing of the yard, only to become imprisoned with her wards in the rabbit house. A decade of living on the plains has taught us to build strong, permanent shelters for our animals. Our rabbit house was built with the knowledge that our daughter would also spend many hours inside it. When the full force of the angry wind struck, we knew she was safe. When the power went out from multiple power lines being blown down, we knew she was prepared with emergency light.
The wind raged, escalated and began to sound more dangerous than anything we had heard before. The power went out. We heard sounds of crashes and wondered which yard items had been destroyed. Then as if the wind knew havoc had been rendered, it died down returning to the soft gale my daughter calls a breeze.
Dinner was jelly beans, Oreos and cheese. Lap tops provided a few moments of entertainment, books emerged and the piano was played as darkness settled in for the night. Baseball caps equipped with LED lights donned the heads of one and all. Quiet pursuits and conversations, calm thoughts and contemplations, broken periodically with laughter were the activities of the evening.
The power seldom stays out this long and we are prepared for emergencies. We could have cooked a warm meal, we could have lit a lamp, but the peacefulness of a simple evening was too inviting. The blanked quite of the night calmed our minds and gave us rest; a break from the world, the blessings of a blackout.
Is there ever a time when sharing confidences, burdens, joys and adventures no longer require a grandmother’s ear or mother’s shoulder? Does the need for a mother’s embrace or a grandmother’s smile ever go out of style? Does one ever stop missing them once they are gone no matter how long it has been?
Husbands and children, sisters and brothers, cousins, aunts, uncles and friends – the love of so many does not seem to fill the chasm left in one’s life after a mother is gone. Most days go by without mourning, but every so often your heart yearns to cry, “Mom, I miss you,” and your shoulders begin to quake and the tears begin to fall.
Do you ever stop missing your mom once your mom is gone? I think the answer is no…